“As
you therefore have received Christ Jesus the Lord, continue to live your lives
in him, rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were
taught..." Colossians 2:6-7
This
weekend I took my eleven-year-old son, Josh, out to Chili's for dinner.
It was a chance for me to revisit his desire to be baptized. For a few
years he has been sporadically asking to be baptized. For a few years I
have been saying "no." It's not that I don't want him to be
baptized, I just didn't feel he was ready.
I
am a baptist by conviction, not merely association. I believe, for a host
of theological and exegetical reasons (reasons that would make for a horribly
dull blog post), that baptism is a marker of allegiance, not a qualification
for acceptance. It's like a varsity jacket. Wearing the jacket
doesn't make you part of the team. You wear it because you are part of
the team. Baptism has nothing to do with becoming a Christian and
everything to do with declaring oneself to be a Christian, an external manifestation
of an internal reality.
Because
of this, I treat the decision to be baptized as a serious one. The
internal should precede the external. A heart devoted to God, if sincere,
will spill over into life in more ways than just a public immersion in water.
It will be evident in behavior, attitude, and priorities. Even in
failure, the internal devotion still spills over in repentance and confession.
Previously,
I was reluctant to let Josh be baptized because I didn't see a lot of this
spill over in his life. I was concerned that he was merely being pulled
by the wake of his parent's faith. But riding a current, even the right
current, is a dangerous foundation for faith. It doesn't take much to
sway you in a new direction. I suspect this is why so many young people,
raised in the church, leave when they are on their own. Their faith has
been riding a wave, not rooted in soil. Those roots make all the
difference.
When
spring arrives in Upstate New York and the blanket of snow finally recedes, it
reveals a landscape of bare trees and matted vegetation. The harsh affects of a
punishing winter are evident. But as the weather warms and the days lengthen,
the plants come back to life. Brown turns to green, bare branches are
once again clothed, and new growth bursts forth. It would be a mistake to
predict the potential for recovery from the wilted remains. Instead, life
springs from a root system, hidden from sight, but undeterred by the long cold.
I
hope to give my children those roots. Roots with tendrils that run deep
into the soil of the Savior; a strong mooring that will serve them well through
the seasons of life. For all the days of sunshine, they will also face
days of dreary rain, or brutal cold, or turbulent wind. And even in
sunshine, the heat can become oppressive. For these my children will
need to be rooted deeply so that when the seasonal circumstances of life
look barren, there will continue to be life beneath the surface.
Over
chicken fingers and tostada chips I explained this to my son Josh, though not
nearly so eloquently. And I was able to affirm that I see these roots
developing. His faith is becoming his own. His priorities,
attitudes, and actions reflect it.
He'll be baptized soon. Baptized because he's been planted.
Planted in the soil of a Savior who can carry him through the coldest
winter into spring.
BLOG NEWS: This blog has always been intended as a greenhouse of sorts, a place where writing ideas can be planted and cultivated. The crop, if it's good enough, can be sent to market when the time is right. A significantly abbreviated version of this post was recently accepted for future use as a Mustard Seed Ministries on-line devotional. My review of Gary Chapman's Happily Ever After was accepted in an expanded version by New Wineskins webzine. My earlier post "Navigator in Focus" was accepted for use on "Our Daily Journey," a blog ministry of Radio Bible Class (publishers of Our Daily Bread). In addition, this past week I was guest blogger for The Upper Room, corresponding to the day I wrote a devotional for their print publication (written long before this blog was launched). All said, it's been a satisfying week as a writer. Thank you for your encouragement as a reader.
Good writing...I am filled with such joy to see these roots within my children. Such a blessing to see the prayers I've held for them since I was pregnant with them being answered. To walk in their room to find them studying their Bible just cause they want to...to have them upset if we have to miss church...to have them share what the Lord is teaching them and working on them...to hear them pray with pure sincerity for others...to watch them serve others...to see them engage with others for care of their souls. It's so exciting to see this now while they are teens and so thankful my 6 year old has these great role models to look up to. I'm looking forward to them being adults and seeing how the Lord uses them.
ReplyDeleteWow, well said! My girls, 9 and 11, are getting baptized next weekend. This is such an encouragement and something the Christian community needs to hear. Thank you for the insight!
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